The 100 Marriage: Arranged Marriage Process Overview

Updated as of May 6, 2025:

Helping Brothers & Sisters Get & Stay Married:

Our process isn’t matchmaking. It’s not dating. It’s arranged marriage for today. It’s a guided, communal path rooted in aligned expectations and biblical counsel, using The 100 Marriage Assessment as a foundation.

Step 1: Family-Facilitated Deep Dive

If your responses indicate potential compatibility with another member of the arranged marriage pool, you will receive a message titled:
“Action Required: [Your Name] — You Have a Potential Spouse.”

Before any introductions are made between potential spouses, we begin with your designated family or trusted representative—not you.

• You’ll assign one or two individuals from your community (preferably a parent, guardian, mentor, or elder) to join a facilitated deep dive conversation on your behalf.

• This session explores shared values, life vision, and alignment based on both individuals’ assessment results.

• Each family representative will have the opportunity to ask questions, gain clarity, and offer counsel.

This ensures communal affirmation before the two individuals meet.

Step 2: Introduction of Potential Spouses

If both families/representatives give their blessing to proceed, the two potential spouses will be invited to a facilitated virtual introduction.

• This is your opportunity to meet, ask intentional questions, and prayerfully explore alignment—supported by a counselor and guided framework.

Step 3: Alignment Decision

After your introductions, you’ll each have a week to privately reflect and decide whether to proceed.

• If you both agree, we’ll move to the next step

• If not, you may choose to re-enter the pool for future consideration

Step 4: Final Conversation

If both potential spouses choose to move forward, a final meeting is scheduled (in person):

• You’ll invite up to two significant figures (e.g., parent, elder, sibling) to join the session.

• Each figure may ask one question of your potential spouse, and you may ask one question of each figure.

• This session aims to confirm relational, spiritual, and familial alignment as you discern your next step.

Step 5: Marriage Commitment

We reconfirm marriage commitment the next day after the meeting and if aligned we begin:

• Our premarital counseling process under our direction

• A private ceremony of blessing for the marriage union

• Schedule date for legal marriage

• Enrolling you in monthly post-commitment counseling sessions for one year to strengthen your foundation

A Note on Potential Spouses

We don’t promise a spouse. We promise intentionality.
If you’re invited to consider someone, it’s because your assessments revealed high alignment in foundational areas that matter—faith, family, finances, expectations, and purpose.

Own It Now: The 100 Marriage Declarations & Decisions You Need to Make Before Getting Married by Lawrence E. Adjah

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We're humbled and are always working on even more ways to better serve you. Stay tuned.

With Gratitude, Respect and Love,

Lawrence