The 100 Marriage: Arranged Marriage Matchmaking Process Overview

Updated as of May 21, 2024:

Helping Brothers & Sisters Get & Stay Married: For a limited time, every single individual who has purchased and owns 'The 100 Marriage: Declarations & Decisions You Need to Make Before Getting Married' will be automatically included in a unique matchmaking pool for arranged marriages.

What’s powerful about our arranged marriage process is you are matched based on the similarity of your scores on ‘The 100 Marriage: Assessment,’ which is based on many of the declarations and decisions found in The 100 Marriage Declarations & Decisions You Need to Make Before Getting Married, book.

What that means is if the decision is made to move forward and marry, we already know your marriage can work because you share very close detailed expectations about how your marriage should operate.

FYI: our first set of invitations all averaged above 95% similarity.

The Process:

First, you’ll receive a message with subject: Action Required: [Your Name] You Have a Potential Match & Your Invitation to Accept

In the message you’ll be asked to either accept or decline your invitation to meet your potential match in a facilitated virtual intro session with 24 hours. You’ll also receive a few details about you and your potential match.

Step 1: Accept the Facilitated (Virtual) Intro Meeting Invitation

In the note, you receive an invitation to a facilitated virtual intro meeting with your potential match.

Before this session, you’ll be invited into a pre-session where we’ll talk through the arranged marriage process in detail to level set expectations and mindset.

Then, you'll have the opportunity to meet and get to know each other, with counsel, meaning you will be asked to have one trusted friend or loved one join you, preferably a parent/guardian, mentor/elder.

We encourage you to come up with at least 7 questions you’d want to ask them. The best part? Since you were early in committing to this tradition, your first virtual intro session and potential arranged marriage facilitation is complimentary for a limited time.

Step 2: Decision Time

After the virtual intro meeting, you'll have 24 hours to decide whether you'd like to proceed with this potential match. If you're eager to explore further, we'll move on to the next step.

However, if you decide to decline, you'll have the option to be considered for future matches, but please note there will be a matching fee for your next subsequent intro session and a higher rate for the third.

(For Reference: Though we are not traditional “matchmakers, ”typical matchmakers charge upwards of $10K - $50K, excluding membership and success fees. We simply want to help more God glorifying couples get married and stay married and do it with excellence, in a sustainable way)

Step 3: Deep Dive Discussion

Should you choose to move forward from there, we'll schedule another facilitated meeting where you'll delve into deeper discussions about your shared expectations, as well as allow you both to invite up to two more significant figures in your life to join you.

This can be your parents, a sibling, best friend or anyone you consider as trusted counsel. They will get one question each, for your potential spouse and you will have one question for each of them.

This session aims to ensure alignment on critical aspects of your future together.

Step 4: Final Decision

Following the deep dive discussion, you'll have a week to deliberate and decide whether you're ready to commit to marriage. Your comfort and confidence are paramount, and we want you to have peace about your decision. 

Remember, we understand the importance of seeking Godly counsel and involving your trusted family and friends in this process. Take the time you need for prayer and thoughtful consideration.

Step 5: Marriage Commitment

Upon mutual agreement, we'll guide you through the logistics and planning for your marriage commitment ceremony

As part of our tradition, you would be committing to a minimum of monthly counseling sessions over the next year to support and nurture your marriage foundation. 

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While the promise of a match isn't guaranteed, the potential for compatibility suggests that the groundwork for a successful relationship will already be laid out—it's then up to you to commit to taking the next steps. 

This exclusive opportunity is available only to 'The 100 Marriage' book owners, affectionately known as The 10K.

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We're humbled and are always working on even more ways to better serve you. Stay tuned.

With Gratitude, Respect and Love,

Lawrence